Party faq
- What do you mean by your profile?
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I have a non-member who I would like to take to
the party. Is that ok?
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Ok, why the profiles in
the first place?
- What should I
wear?
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What are
the ratios of singles to couples to single men?
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What are the ages of the
attendees?
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Are
single men going to be there? Are they welcome?
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What should I expect at this
party?
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I came to the party to meet one of the couples who are hosting. Why haven't
I?
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Do the host/hostesses play? I have been to a couple of parties now and have
not seen them "with" anyone.
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I know pictures were taken of me and I want copies. How do I get them?
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Can I get copies of
all the party pictures?
- Can I
bring my own alcohol?
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I
do not see anywhere to join. Can I join your web site?
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Is there a door cover at
your parties?
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How much do you make
off of these parties?
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Can you promote my party? Or can I promote it at your event or on your
website and / or network?
- Why do
you collect e-mails?
This site and it's parties are dedicated to online swingers and sex site
members and all such members have profiles on those sites. To show you are a
member, that you should be at our parties, and understand what may happen
(doesn’t everyone seem to offend easy these days?) we request that you add yor name as attending on the sites that allow you too, RSVP on our evite, or print
the page of your profile that you see upon logging into the site. This shows
that you have a password, and are an actual member. Note: Ok, a new issue
has come up. Lifestyle Lounge has written there site in such a manner that you
cannot print your profile out. You can however, print out business cards once
you have logged in. If you would just print one of those on a full size sheet
of paper clear enough to read your handle and we will call it good.
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In the past it has been, however these parties have gotten to be so big that
we are requesting that people have there guests make a profile on one of the
sites. Too many newbie's are showing up and not being properly supervised by
there escorts. We love new people and want them to feel welcome and a part of
the group. As you know basic membership on these sites is free so why not make
a profile and join the fun?
Ok, why
the profiles in the first place?
The profiles show an active participation in the lifestyle. It shows that
they know this is a swingers party and if they are offended they were at least
forewarned. By logging in and making a personal profile it shows a direct
action to join and there by an implicit understanding of what is occurring.
They cannot be surprised by what occurs and should have an understanding of
what will NOT occur. It also shows us who should not be there. People not in
the lifestyle tend to not understand.
We have not required costumes or specific attire to any of our parties.
Inside the party the clothing rule is wear what you are comfortable with but
remember that you have to go through public areas to get there and need to be
decent in them. We do maintain a private venue so "risqué" is ok and at times
even encouraged. Any changes to this will be part of the main party
announcement. For example if we decide to hold a party that is planned to be in
our best dress it will be on the main page and in the announcement.
What are the
ratios of singles to couples to single men?
The ratios change at every
party but come close to about 50-60 % couples, 20- 25 % single men and 20-25 %
single ladies. With 313 people at Halloween 2005 and 450 at Mardi Gras 2006
that leaves a lot of single people at the parties. For Mardi Gras 2006 we had
74 single men at the party. That is only 17% of the total.
The ages vary just like the
ratios but they have been trending downward to a younger crowd. Halloween was
close to 75% under age 40 and probably about 35% under age 30. Mardi Gras '06
was a little better. The profiles show a ratio of right at 37% under age 30.
The lifestyle does not attract as many younger (under 25) people as it does the
older groups so we feel this is an excellent turn out.
Are single men
going to be there? Are they welcome?
Yes they are. We welcome everyone to our large events. We do not have
problems with the single men in the lifestyle. The only problems we have ever
seen are the single ones who are not members. This has led to our requiring
the membership pages to enter.
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First off this is a party not an orgy. We will have a DJ on the dance floor
and games/contests going all night. With the dancing and games playing there
will be alot to do and watch. That being said, this party will be "R" rated for
most of the night and we may see a few "X" scenes but no one is required to
watch or participate in anything. We sincerely hope you will participate by at
least watching and cheering your favorite contestant on. Due to the fact that
this is a life style event you may be approached and propositioned for after
parties and that is entirely up to you. Some of those are private one on one
evenings. Other rooms may be full Orgies. We have no control over the private
rooms and recommend you go with people you know anywhere private.
As much as we want to meet
everyone we just do not have the time to go out and introduce ourselves to
everyone individually. Please feel free to come and introduce yourself to us.
We would love to meet you.
If they do what are their
personal rules. I would like to get a chance to play with them. Yes we do
play but we don't publicize it, so you might not see it happen. It is hard for
us to get away to play at the parties, there for we do not play much while we
are working them. However, it is possible. Both couples have their own rules
and exceptions to them. If your interested just ask. Later play dates are the
best bet but if you are REAL interested there is always a chance.
We would love for you to have copies of anything we have with you in it.
However there is a bit of a problem. We don't know who you are for sure. We have also told the participants that the pictures would only be utilized on our site.
Sorry but it is impossible to
get permission from everyone at the party to give you their picture. We will
send you one's your in but that is all we can do. Please ask the people you
would like pictures of to send you their copies directly.
Can I bring my own
alcohol?
NO There are a couple of
reasons. The first is that any bar or club serving alcohol is not allowed to
have outside liquor by state law. That being said I know most of us are not all
that worried about the "mans' rules". There is a second reason that I hope will
be something people are worried about and that is with the new venue we are
required to sign off on a bar tab for the night. If we cannot cover the bar
requirements, well, you know the rest. No sob stories, we just want to keep
having these.
We are not a member site. We are just an information site for our parties.
You must be a member of a swinger and/or sex site and provide a copy of your
member page upon entrance to each of our parties.
Yes there is. We charge a minimal cover at the door to offset our expenses
incurred in throwing the party. Please see the Party page for the cover charge.
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Yes we get asked that a lot and
the truthful answer is nothing.
Our goal is to break even, however as you can
imagine this is very difficult. We have used any extra money to increase the
amenities at the next party or to offset the losses from previous or future
parties. We all feel fortunate as long as we are within $100 at the end of
tonight we are happy to call it even.
We now have a local events
page. If you have a specific event you would like us to post just check the
page for submission directions. In regard to promotion beyond the scope of our
local events page the answer has to be "Sorry but no". The reasoning for that
is two fold. First is that we get asked by numerous entities to promote their
party or website and we feel that we cannot do proper justice to them. With the
scope of our parties, expectations would be disproportionate with the result
from us just posting it. We spend literally dozens of hours and send thousands
of invitations to people to assure our parties are of the size and scope they
are. Our just posting an event would not produce the level of response people
might expect it to. The second reason is that with the size, scope, and level
we have taken the parties to, we hope that people have come to trust that our
parties are exceptional. It is our goal that when someone hears our name
associated with a party that will be enough to convince them to go. We all
have been to some parties that were just bad. No other word for it. We have no
way of knowing if any given party, or event, is going to be that one bad one.
Therefore we are forced to not attach ourselves to any events.
The only way we can
communicate with our party participants is through e-mail. We do not use this
e-mail to spam you, or sell our e-mail list to any other companies. The
information is strictly used for upcoming Rocky Mountain Parties events or
smaller gathering put on by your hosts. Your
privacy and the integrity of this list is very important to us.
